Resting…

August 26th, 2010

Yes, my blog has been silent for…over a month now.  I told Josh the other day that I thought I was done with blogging, faceb*k, maybe even twitt*r. I realized that was one of my extreme statments in an emotional overreaction moment, although I think some of my emotion in that was justified. What I was feeling was too much time on social networks, and therefore and overwhelming “oppression.” Do I really need to know every detail of my 1,000+ friends’ lives?  Do I really need to read so-and-so’s blog who I don’t even know and who actually frustrates me? Do people really care about how much ice cream I just ate enough read my status?  You get the picture…I think Paul said it best, “Whatever is true, noble, lovely, pure, admirable…think on such things!”  I think I found myself thinking too much about those other things…

It reminded me of a picture framed at my mom’s house — a quote from Corrie Ten Boom: “If your eyes are on the world you are oppressed. If your eyes are on yourself you are depressed.  If your eyes are on Jesus you are at rest.”  Mmm rest. I need some of it right now.  My mind does.

I’d like to read a good thought-provoking book on God and His ways instead of figuring out what fun post I could drum up.  Now please don’t hear me say that social networking is BAD.  I’m just saying for me — right now — I need a little LESS.

So, if you don’t hear from me on the blog for a while longer, it’s because I’m trying to do a little more resting…

See you sometime. :)

Cow Day

July 13th, 2010

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Oh, the things we do for chicken.  This is the second year we’ve dressed like cows for free food so I guess it is an official tradition.  Last year CJ’s mom commented on one of our photos of the day by saying, “You two were made for each other.”  Yes, ma’am…fifteen years of friendship will do that to you!

The Weekend of the Fourth

July 12th, 2010

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I had great week at beach camp being transformed by the Word and hanging out with a bunch of awesome middle school girls a couple weeks ago.  But as always, I was glad to get home to Josh!

We went to the fireworks on Saturday the 3rd with some friends and church staff. The weather was absolutely perfect–so perfect that I was chilly by the end of the evening!  I also had a little buddy all night. Lainey is the almost-three-year-old of some of our friends on staff.  She makes me smile!

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After church on Sunday and a quick nap, we hopped in the car and headed to one of my favorite cities on earth: Birmingham.  We decided to spend a night with Kim and Andy who are expecting a sweet baby girl this fall.  Kim asked Josh to take a few pictures of the “baby bump”–or should I say “bumps?”

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We were able to watch the ultrasound which was partially in 4D (amazing!), and I got to feel sweet little girl kick! I cannot wait to meet Baby Arthur in a few months!  We had a great time with our sweet friends–enjoyed a yummy dinner at one of Josh’s favorite Mexican restaurants, lots of good conversation and a movie!  Kimmy made us blueberry muffins for breakfast the next morning, and they hit the spot.  We raved about our NetFl*x membership, and I got a text from Kim later that day saying that Andy had signed them up no more than ten minutes after we drove away! Too funny!  We’re thankful for our dear friends and the time we got to spend with them this weekend!

After leaving Bham we headed to my Granny’s for a late lunch and visit with our extended family! Mamaw and Papaw even joined us!  I just love this candid shot Josh captured of her while we all sat around chatting in the living room!

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The menu? Grilled hot dogs, potato salad, baked beans, banana pudding and Uncle Richard’s homemade ice cream!  I can’t think of a better meal – delish!  I had a moment before we got there where I counted Grandpa in the mix and then realized he wouldn’t be there.  I’m not sure how long it will take for those moments to pass, but they sure are difficult.  He was missed!

And it wouldn’t be a weekend without a shot of the two of us!  This was after Josh had taken a nap in the middle of Granny’s living room floor and I had curled up in a quilt on the couch–not hard to tell!

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Happy Father’s Day

June 20th, 2010

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Happy Father’s Day to a daddy who has always hugged, always played, always talked, always prayed and always loved!  I love you!

May to June

June 19th, 2010

Busy.  Non-stop. No break. Can’t catch my breath.  All phrases to describe our life from May to June. At the beginning of May, my cousin Kristie married JR!  It was a sweet celebration, but not too long after that Josh’s grandpa passed away and we had to fly to Michigan for a few days.  When we returned we had a full month ahead of us!

I have been on on the student ministry staff for just over 4 years, meaning that the seniors that graduated this May were in 8th grade when I began my ministry with them.  Needless to say, they are a very special class to Josh and me.  Their class is committed to each other, to God, to our student ministry and to serving!  They are awesome!  Nine of them that graduated served on our student worship band – WOW! Half of those have been leading worship for 3 or 4 years!

All that to say, May was packed with graduation parties.  We had at least two almost every weekend and a couple during the week, but it was worth every visit.  I even had a chance to steal four of my girls away and celebrate with just them.  These four girls have been close to me all four years (but I’ve know them all longer than that–and babysat a couple of them)!

Clockwise: Joy, Betty, Hillary and Jessica on our day-trip to Pappasitos. A very special day with my girls!

Clockwise: Joy, Betty, Hillary and Jessica on our day-trip to Pappasitos. A very special day with my girls!

I wish I had pictures with every graduate, but we were only able to snap a few.  I have one with each of these four girls, but will save you more pics of the same faces.  Here’s one we got with another one of our student worship leaders (and someone I’ve known since he was born)!

Us with Sean at his graduation party! Cannot believe he is heading off to college this year! His family has always been precious to me and now to Josh, too!

Us with Sean at his graduation party! He and his family have always been precious to me and now to Josh, too!

I can’t wait to see how God keeps using this amazing group of teenagers as they continue their journey with him!

A couple weeks ago, we had a SERVE night at DSM and because the girls brought more stuff than the boys (clothes, nonperishable food, etc), I got to pie Daniel in the face!  A special thanks to the anonymous guys (cough, cough, Sean and Luc) who donated their belongings to the girls’ side! What gentlemen!  I had just washed my hair that afternoon so that I could wake up the next morning bright and early for our mission trip and throw it in a ponytail. I was not wanting to get pie in my hair and mess up my plan!

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Luckily, Daniel had just shaved his head so I was able to make sure the whip cream got all over his face and the top of his head.  Ah, student ministry.

Last week, I took a group of adult leaders and students to work with a year-old church plant in Memphis.  They have built much of their ministry around investing in the people of a neighboring apartment complex, and our students put on a VBS for the kids there!  It was moving to see our students work together, love each other and love the kids that they met.  Five kids came to know Jesus because of the direct personal evangelism done by our students!  Yay, God!

Most of the group on our last day in front of Graceland!

Most of the group on our last day in front of Graceland!

Yes, we had a little extra time at the end of the last day and where else would you want to go while in Memphis?!  I have always loved Elvis and his music…and it’s been a dream of mine to visit Graceland.  We had to explain to the teenagers why Elvis was so significant — I think a few of them got it.  Not that I would ever WISH to go back to Memphis, but if I do, I’d like to take the actual tour of the home.

Whew!  A lot of miles to cover in one post.  Josh and I just spent our first Saturday at home in over a month with nothing to do!  It was a GREAT day.  Trying to store up some quality time and rest for beach camp in a little over a week…thankful for my husband who graciously perserveres through a student minister’s summer schedule.

Summer Was Better…

May 15th, 2010

…When I was a kid.

1.  Going on vacation with Mamaw and Papaw.

2.  Spending all day at the pool with Mom.

3.  Playing outside til it got dark.

4.  Eating frozen grapes for a refreshing afternoon treat.

5.  Running through the sprinkler.

6.  Backyard Bible Clubs.

In Remembrance…

May 10th, 2010

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I met Grandpa Ernie and Grandma Lula on our wedding day. I can remember Josh’s mom bringing them back to the bridal room to meet me for the first time.  I had no idea how quickly I’d grow to love them both.  Josh and I made a trip to Michigan to see them the summer after we got married.  Grandpa made me feel like he had known me for years and was genuinely interested in my ministry and my life.  In fact, each time I saw him after that visit, he asked me specific questions about the things we’d talked about then.

The more I spent time with him, the more I loved him.  I loved the way he talked to and about Grandma and the love I could still see in his eyes.  I loved his stories and his voice. I loved his sense of humor and his smile.  I loved how freely he talked about Jesus.  I loved how he always had little fix-it jobs for Josh. I loved his generosity and care for people. I loved how my husband admired him.

We are so sad to say goodbye to him, and while I only knew him for three short years, I loved him like he was my own grandpa.  Thank you, Grandpa Ernie, for your legacy of integrity and love!

A Sister Calendar

May 10th, 2010

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This challenging quote came from the handcrafted calendar Mary Beth gave me for Christmas. It’s one of the greatest gifts I’ve ever received because she put a whole lot of time, thought and personal touch into it!  It’s funny how each day God uses the quotes, silly sayings, inside jokes or scriptures she chose to speak to me right where I am.

Thanks, Mary, for being His instrument in my life in so many ways!

The Grief of a Friend

May 3rd, 2010

Let me preface this post by saying that I’m writing to help myself continue processing the last eight days. It has been rough.

One of my best friends in the entire world lost her dad suddenly.  I got the call early last Sunday afternoon and felt absolutely helpless.  My first reaction was not accepting it as reality.  When their neighbor called to tell me, I almost refused to believe it.  Seriously, for a second I was asking, “Are you sure…are you absolutely positive…?”  She was.  My next set of emotions were completely irrational. I wanted to change it–fix it–make it as if it wasn’t true.  I wanted to do this for my sweet friend who was about to find out the most terrible news she’d ever heard in her life.

I’ve experienced my own share of grief in the 27 years I’ve lived.  I’ve grieved the loss of a sweet great-grandma who I absolutely loved as a little girl.  I’ve grieved the reality of my own physical limitations.  I’ve grieved the news of a dear friend moving away. I’ve grieved the leaving behind of a season of life, a city and a community I loved.  I’ve grieved the end of a relationship.  I’ve grieved the moral failure of a minister that I highly admired.  I’ve grieved lifelong dreams that seem to be so far out of reach.  I’ve grieved the death of my dear Grandpa.

What I haven’t grieved yet is the loss of a parent. So unexpectedly. And at such a young age.  This list of “unexplainables” about these circumstances could go on.

I can only try to imagine how my precious friend feels right now. Devastated. Broken. Shocked. Fragile. Exhausted. Do those words even do her grief justice?  My heart aches for her. I still want to fix it!

My dad has several quotes about death and one of them is this: “Death is never convenient.” Nope, it’s not.  It messes up your schedule, it messes up your sleep, it messes up your emotions…it’s part of life, but it is never convenient.  It’s not convenient for the family and it’s not convenient for those that love the family.

But Dad has another quote, and this one is my favorite:  “It’s better to err on the side of caring too much than caring too little.”  I agree — I’d rather someone be tired of me helping, showing up, hugging, praying, writing notes…than for them to look back and say, “Leigh Anne just wasn’t there enough.  Did she not care?”

I’m devoting myself to my friend.  And I mean for the next however many years she is grieving.  I’m realizing this won’t be the last friend I’ll have to walk through the valley with.  The older we get, the more death will look us right in the face.  As much as we know that it’s coming one day, we’ll never really be ready.

I want to end this post reflecting on the amazing thing I’ve witnessed in the life of my grieving friend and her family.  Her dad knew Jesus.  He had no fear of death because he knew where he was going and who he would be with for all eternity.  And though his family’s grief is heavy, they do not grieve as those who have no hope (1 Thessalonians 4:12).  They know they will meet him again one day! Their peace in the midst of pain, their desire for the hope of the gospel to be communicated at his funeral, and their purpose to see their circumstances bring God the glory is inspiring.

This verse has come to mind many times as I’ve cried and prayed for them. It comes from Psalm 46:1-3 & 11.

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.  Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging…..The LORD Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress. Selah

Israel Sneakpeak

April 19th, 2010

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Meet Ben, the cutest camel ever.  Unfortunately for Ben, we named HER before we found out SHE was not a boy.  Oops!  There were three camels to choose from, and I was determined to ride the one that was not clumsy or moody.  This is just a little proof that we did go to Israel until I can find some time to post more pictures and more details.  The Lord used this trip to strengthen our faith in so many tangible ways.  We feel so blessed to have walked where Jesus walked and experienced such a wonderful place!